Friday, November 28, 2008
Clear the confusion about Sexual HealingMindN
Indeed, people are very confused when they find my site linked to this lens linked to this lens which I call Sexual HealingMindN: http://ping.fm/eLDBw
People ask me, "You claim to be such a spiritual guy? Why do you talk about all these perverted things? Why do you like to talk about sex if you're such a religious guy? Huh?!"
Such attitudes are unfortunate. I'm not going to argue with anyone's cognitive commitments about sexuality because no matter what I say, some people are unmovable and completely closed in their opinions.
Sometimes such opinions are a good thing when you want to show strength of conviction. Most of the time it's just the way people have been brought up.
If you're brought up to believe that sex is a dirty thing and has nothing to do with being spiritual, I'm not going to argue with you.
Yes, any kind of sexuality is treated as a perversion by the puritan types. But when we talk about the love between a man and a woman who love each other such much and they love life so much that they want to express themselves to each other in an ultimate act of intimacy, where is the perversion? Where is the pervision when they love each other and they love life so much, that they want to create their own?
I have advocated time and again that we are spiritual beings intimately connected to physical bodies. In that respect, we could easily take the perspective that a sexual union is a spiritual union where love is involved. I would go as far as to say that the physical union completes the spiritual union; there are so many facets of the sexual union that directly correlate to the union of energy meridians between man and woman, that this can be nothing less than bridging the gap between equal yet opposite systems of higher gauge symmetry (i.e. astral, etheric, energetic, and more).
A so called "puritan" might say, "the pleasure derived from the sex act is sinful..."
The euphoria derived from the orgasm function during the sexual embrace with the one you love is nothing less than the euphoria you experience in the Presence of God. That's why you thank God for the one you love.
You thank God for the healing connection you have to the one you love, the healing connection she has with God, and the healing connection God has with you. That is the perfect trifecta. God provides the sexual function for those with healing intentions to heal the one he loves - and to create a gifted child in this physical world.
Taoist Sexology happens to provide the necessary tools, so we know how to have that sexual healing mind, to heal the ones we love.
Healing takes great discipline. Most people don't have that discipline; they don't want it. They weren't raised to understand sexuality in terms of healing. That's OK. Neither was I.
The difference is, I choose to leave my mind and my heart open to all possibilities - and with God, all things are possible.
Thanks for your time.